Sexual inclinations are one of the strongest human instincts which, like other natural human instincts, must be satisfied in the appropriate way. Human instincts can not be extinguished and even if we can suppress them it is not wise to do so, as that would be fighting against the laws of nature. Therefore, it is acceptable to satisfy one’s [natural] instincts a in rational way.

In many societies, at certain ages, single individuals are not able to permanently get married or married individuals due to long trips or for other reasons are unable to satisfy their sexual urge. Islam has offered an appropriate solution to these problems that stem from not being able to correctly satisfy one’s natural desires; in addition to marrying one woman permanently, polygamy and temporary marriage are also permissible.

Keep the following points in mind:

1. We believe in a kind and merciful God who cares about his servants and does not make a ruling without a purpose; in simpler terms his rules are in accordance with human interest.

2. If temporary marriage or polygamy were not allowed, irreparable damage would befall society. The laws of Islam are divine, therefore temporary marriage and polygamy have been deemed permissible. This right has been given to man and has not been conditioned upon the permission of his first wife. Considering a woman’s sensibility and sensitivity towards this issue; had this right been conditioned as such (upon the permission of a man’s wife), then the human interest which Allah has intended would not be achieved due to the fact that most women are opposed to their husbands marrying another woman. Of course some scholars have stated that, if a Muslim man wants to temporarily marry a non-Muslim woman of the book (a Christian or Jewish woman), while he is permanently married to a Muslim woman, then that marriage is contingent upon his permanent wife’s permission.